HAPPY HOMEMAKER MONDAY, MENUS with RECIPES week 37 of 2025~ BLOG 365.258

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LAST WEEK RECAPPED

I have got to find a way to slow everything down!!! I want to enjoy each and EVERY day of the fall season.  We’re already at mid September so it’s already moving TOO fast!!.

Last week was a jumble of activities that also included cooking at the Eagle’s one night, an auxiliary meeting that I barely got my report done for, lots of shopping and computer work for the Eagles also on top of everything I need(ed) to do at home.

BUT, the best part was “lunch” with a close friend. Years ago we agreed at this age we needed to do more one on one lunch dates and such as we share a birthday month. LOL She’s never lied to me before, but she did this week and it led to her getting me to a ‘SURPRISE PARTY‘ at a favorite local winery! My first ever surprise party that included crowns, birthday girl pins and magic wands with LOTS absolutely beautiful flowers from my friend’s yard!

Then on Sunday we went for a “normal” lunch at the same close friend’s bar and grill… and she got me again with another set of friends, more flowers and balloons! I absolutely LOVE balloons!! I am certainly blessed to have such wonderful friends! And thank you Nicole for trying so hard to make a sugar free dessert!! I love you all.

Hubby woke me with coffee and breakfast in bed for my birthday this morning, so I’m lingering here in bed to write this post and actually having a lazy morning! We’re then having lunch with my mom and then just the two of are going to a favorite restaurant for appetizers and drinks this evening.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

THE WEATHER OUTSIDE

Fall is here!!!!! And I’m loving EVERY minute of it!! It’s supposed to be near 80°, but we woke yesterday to rain and 60’s that lasted all day 🙂 And the rest of the week is supposed to be quite similar.

TO DO, APPOINTMENTS, DVR/TV & PROJECTS

THIS WEEK’S TO DO LIST, PROJECTS, APPOINTMENTS & DVR/TV
  • LAUNDRY & CLEANING I did 4 loads of laundry yesterday, prepped the meat for the Tuesday special at the Eagles as well as prepped multiple meals for this week at home. Hubby isn’t “allowing” me to do anything today whether I want to or not. I do have a few phone calls that won’t wait and don’t care that it’s my birthday tho LOL 😀
  • GROCERIES & ERRANDS I have a small list of items I need this week and will pick them up when I do the Eagle’s shopping on Tuesday, a medical test on Wednesday and helping a friend organize an estate sale on Thursday.
  • RECIPE RESEARCH & MENU PLANNING I found several cook books while helping my friend with her MIL’s things for the estate sale and have been enjoying not only reading them, but finding some new recipes for fall and the next several weeks.
  • DVR/TV I’m working on my mom’s internet/TV and trying to come up with a plan to cut her costs, increase her productiveness as well as update her TV and APPS.

READING TIME

I began THE BOOK WOMAN OF TROUBLESOME CREEK by Kim Michelle Richardson and am enjoying, but have been so tired I’m not getting very far each night. Book club met yesterday and we are starting SOMEONE IN THE ATTIC by Andrea Mara.

FUNNIES

MENU PLANS

BREAKFAST is always a work in progress for me – it will generally be hot water and a fruit yogurt 😀

 9/15 MONDAY
 9/16 TUESDAY
 9/17 WEDNESDAY
 9/18 THURSDAY
9/19 FRIDAY
9/20 SATURDAY
9/21 SUNDAY
DINNER
OUT FOR BOTH LUNCH AND DINNER
BAKED FETTUCCINE ALFREDO & BROCCOLI
CORN/YOYO clean out refrigerator night or you’re on your own
EVERYMAN STEAKS & MUSTARD NOODLES
CHILI CON CARNE CUPS & SALAD
PASTA with BUTTERNUT SQUASH and SAGE and PORK CHOPS
CORN/YOYO clean out refrigerator night or you’re on your own
DESSERT
 
BLUE CARROT BUNDT CAKE
 

FAVORITE PHOTOS FROM THE CAMERA

We had dinner with some friends the other night out on their deck and they have the prettiest ragdoll cat and of course my favorite KitKat. I was able to get some great pictures of Blue in particular down watching for birds. 

INSPIRATIONS

LIFE TIP

HOMEMAKING / COOKING TIP

RECIPES COMING UP THIS WEEK

  • NUTTY PEACH SQUARES
  • BLOODY MARY PICKLES
  • SUNSHINE CAKE aka PIG PICKIN’ CAKE

RECIPE LINKS FROM LAST WEEK

WEEKLY FEATURED PARTY LINKS

CROCK POT REUBENS ~ BLOG 365.254

CROCK POT REUBEN SLIDERS makes 24 slider sandwiches

2-3 pound corned beef brisket with seasonings
16 ounce jar sauerkraut, drained
1/2 cup thousand island dressing

  • Place meat in slow cooker and sprinkle with seasonings.
  • Spread sauerkraut over meat.
  • Pour dressing over sauerkraut.
  • Cover and cook on low 6-8 hours.
  • Remove meat from slow cooker and slice across grain.
  • Return meat to slow cooker and stir to combine with sauerkraut and dressing.

24 rye rolls or Hawaiian rolls, toasted
2 cups shredded Swiss cheese
1/2 cup thousand island dressing, optional

  • Using a slotted spoon, spoon the mixture onto toasted rolls.
  • Top with grated Swiss cheese.
  • Top with more thousand island dressing if desired.
  • Enjoy!

AUTHENTIC CARNITAS aka MEXICAN PULLED PORK ~ BLOG 365.252

CARNITAS (Mexico’s version of pulled pork) is the first thing I look for on any Mexican restaurant menu. It is my very favorite. BUT, it must be prepared in an authentic way.

Being a gulf coast Texas girl and growing up in southern California I LOVE authentic Mexican food. Here in the Pacific North West though many of the Mexican restaurants have Americanized recipes to the point that I don’t enjoy them because they are no longer authentic. There is a local food truck that makes the very best and most authentic carnitas, but being a food truck it’s cold to eat outside in the winter so I have perfected my own recipe for home. This recipe is perfect because it has minimal prep, very few actual ingredients and tastes just as good in a taco as it does fresh out of the skillet by itself.

I read somewhere that every tortilla dreams of being stuffed with Carnitas and I can’t agree more!!!!! The pork must be seasoned perfectly though, slow cooked to make it juicy and then fried crisp! Anything less is just plain pulled pork and not worthy of being called Carnitas.

Traditional Mexican cooking methods of using A LOT of lard isn’t as feasible for American home cooks, so here’s an easy slow cooker method. It can also be made in an insta-pot or even a pressure cooker. They key to the authentic taste and texture is browning it in the skillet before just before serving.

CARNITAS aka MEXICAN SLOW COOKER PULLED PORK

4 pounds boneless pork shoulder (pork butt), trimmed
FRESH ground sea salt and black pepper
1 LARGE onion, chopped
1 jalapeno , deseeded and derided, chopped
4 cloves garlic, minced
3/4 cup juice from FRESH oranges
1 cup chopped FRESH roasted Hatch Chiles
1/2 cup chopped cilantro

1 tablespoon dried oregano*
2 teaspoons ground cumin*
1 tablespoon avocado oil
Crumbled Cotija, for garnish
FRESH chopped cilantro, for garnish

  • Rinse and dry the pork shoulder, rub all over with salt and pepper.
  • Whisk together the rub ingredients if making your own.
  • Rub all over the pork. Marinate in large ziplock bags with the chopped hatch chiles for 24 hours.
  • Place the pork in a slow cooker fat cap up.
  • Sprinkle the chopped onions, jalapeño, cilantro and minced garlic over the meat.
  • Pour orange juice over top.
  • Slow Cook on low for 10 hours or on high for 7 hours until pork is tender enough to shred.
  • Remove from slow cooker and let cool slightly. Then shred using two forks.
  • Discard all but 2 cups of cooking juices. The liquid will be a bit salty, it is the seasoning for the pork. Set liquid aside.
  • Heat avocado oil in large skillet over high heat.
  • Spread shredded pork in the pan, but DO NOT CROWD pan. You’ll probably need to cook in batches.
  • Drizzle some of the juice over the pork and allow to evaporate until the bottom side is golden brown and crusty. Turn and sear the other side for a moment, you still want some juicy bits.
  • Just before serving, drizzle more juices over pork and serve hot with crumbled Cotija cheese and chopped cilantro!


NOTES: Pampered chef makes a Carnitas spice mix that I really like and I use it as a rub for 24 hours before slow cooking.


HAPPY HOMEMAKER MONDAY, RECIPES & MENUS week 36 of 2025 ~ BLOG 365.251

Be sure to join Happy Homemaker Monday with our host, Sandra at Diary of a Stay at Home Mom

LAST WEEK RECAPPED

Once again the week flew by too fast and I had way too much to do to enjoy much of it. So much of it was mundane, but necessary tasks that I am glad to have over! I’m looking forward to a slower pace this week. It will culminate with a birthday lunch with a dear friend next weekend. Our birthdays are 10 days apart so we try and take each other out for a fun day each year.

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

THE WEATHER OUTSIDE

We had a FANTASTIC thunderstorm last Wednesday that showed up out of the blue, gave us one heck of a show and also cooled things off quite nicely. Fortunately, most of the lighting was going sideways and not starting new fires in the area. This week is starting out with those same cooler temperatures and some more rain.

ON MY MIND

I refuse to sound monotonous here, so let’s just say things are still settling around here 🙂

TO DO, APPOINTMENTS, DVR/TV & PROJECTS

THIS WEEK’S TO DO LIST, PROJECTS, APPOINTMENTS & DVR/TV
  • LAUNDRY & CLEANING I’m pretty much up to date. Then again are we ever truly up yo date with laundry?
  • GROCERIES & ERRANDS I’ll be in town tomorrow for a hair cut and pedicure so I will pick up groceries then. We still have our main car in the shop for an electrical issue and as soon as it is done the other one will be going in a list of things.
  • PROJECTS & TRAVELS These things are still on hold for now.
  • RECIPE RESEARCH & MENU PLANNING I spent most of yesterday researching and planning about the next 3-4 weeks of recipes.
  • DVR/TV The new season is about to start in a couple weeks, but I’m not sure what’s even going to be on these days.

READING TIME

I just finished THE BOOK OF LOST AND FOUND by Lucy Foley and began THE BOOK WOMAN OF TROUBLESOME CREEK by Kim Michelle Richardson. Book club met yesterday and we are starting SOMEONE IN THE ATTIC by Andrea Mara.

FUNNIES

MENU PLANS

BREAKFAST is always a work in progress for me – it will generally be hot water and a fruit yogurt 😀

9/8 MONDAY
 9/9 TUESDAY
9/10 WEDNESDAY
9/11 THURSDAY
9/12 FRIDAY
9/13 SATURDAY
9/14 SUNDAY
DINNER
GREEN CHICKEN ENCHILADA SOUP
CHICKEN CAESAR SALAD with EVERYTHING BAGEL CAESAR DRESSING
CORN/YOYO clean out refrigerator night or you’re on your own
HAWAIIAN FRIED RICE and COLESLAW
PORK POSOLE & CRUSTY BREAD
CROCK POT REUBENS
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DESSERT
 
CHOCOLATE PEANUT BUTTER CHEESECAKE BARS
 

FAVORITE PHOTOS FROM THE CAMERA

My friend got these adorable coasters as a gift yesterday – they’re just so cute!

LIFE TIP

INSPIRATIONS

HOMEMAKING / COOKING TIP

RECIPES COMING UP THIS WEEK

  • AUTHENTIC CARNITAS

RECIPE LINKS FROM LAST WEEK

WEEKLY FEATURED PARTY LINKS

ITALIAN SUNDAY GRAVY ~ BLOG 365.247

I first learned of ITALIAN SUNDAY GRAVY in a magazine and then a cookbook. While there is a GREAT debate in the Italian American community about whether Sunday Gravy and Sunday Sauce are the same thing, my Italian hubby’s family says there is NO debate. There MUST be meat to be called a gravy otherwise it’s only a red sauce!!!! Sunday gravy is thick and hearty and the recipe that turns a simple Sunday into something really special.

An authentic recipe for Italian Sunday gravy aka sugo is a rich homemade red sauce that gets simmered for hours and hours with meatballs, Italian sausage, and melt-in-your-mouth pieces of tender slow cooked pork. It is traditionally served on Sundays making this iconic Italian recipe perfect for big family gatherings, special occasions and for leftovers any other night of the week. According to my research in the old world it was a truly arduous process with nonnas waking at dawn to make meatballs, stuffing and rolling flank steak to make braciole and even adding WHOLE pork chops and sausages to the vat of simmering sauce. They would simmer and stir ALL day until the gravy aroma carried all the way down the street. Obviously I have streamlined the process into a slow cooker situation, but I think it is still quite tasty! The large grind ground beef and mild Italian sausage works great for this version. Using other cuts of beef can make a tasty RAGU.

I don’t personally have an Italian background, but it is the end of summer and I have several bunches of ripe tomatoes to use along with an Italian husband who LOVES red sauce. There is something magical about the smell of this recipe simmering for hours on end. But, I understand that every Italian American makes their pasta sauce a different way, and they all have strong opinions about what it’s called. Many call it sugo, which is the Italian word for sauce. But, no matter what you call it – sugo, sauce or gravy – this is a recipe you definitely want to make again and again. 

This recipe for authentic Italian red gravy is ideal for feeding a large group. I make it at the end of summer using up my tomatoes as well as many other veggies and then freeze it in batches for the winter months and use it to make lasagna as well as chicken Parmesan and the such.

Red gravy does require several hours and hours of low and slow simmering. But, the actual hands-on prep is pretty minimal. This is the best Sunday gravy recipe because it’s incredibly forgiving and adaptable. It can easily be scaled up or down to accommodate your number of guests.
Everyone makes theirs a little bit different. What makes this recipe special is that ultimately you get to decide what tastes best for you and your family!

My best advice is to ALWAYS use QUALITY ingredients! You can adjust the ingredients and amounts to suit your family.

Many start by adding all sorts of meats like short ribs, spare ribs, meatballs, and sausages, letting them all cook together for hours and as the day goes on, the sauce gets thicker, the flavors get richer and the smells are just amazing. Sunday Gravy is a comfort food, a hearty dish meant for the family to enjoy a delicious meal together while having a wonderful family day. Unlike a basic marinara or tomato sauce, Sunday Gravy is enriched with the flavors of various meats, making it more of a meat stew served over pasta.

Most of the time a Sunday Gravy recipe is passed down from generation to generation, with each family member putting their own spin on it. But, while the recipe might vary from family to family, the core elements remain the same – meat, tomatoes and love. No matter the variation, it’s always been about making something full of flavor and filled with love and warmth.

ITALIAN SUNDAY GRAVY

2 tablespoons avocado oil
1 LARGE Vidalia onion, chopped
4-5 garlic cloves, minced
1/2-2 teaspoons red chili pepper flakes
FRESH ground sea salt
1-2 tablespoons sugar
2 tablespoons tomato paste
1 pound pork butt, cut into large chunks
3-4 mild Italian sausage, casing removed
1 pound lean chili grind (large) ground beef
6 cups homemade chicken stock
2-3 pounds FRESH RIPE tomatoes or 3 large cans San Marzano crushed tomatoes
Prepared favorite pasta

  • Heat oil in a large skillet over medium high heat.
  • Add the pork pieces and sear well on each side until golden brown to develop a nice depth of flavor.
  • Transfer the pork to a slow cooker.
  • Lower the heat, then sauté the onions JUST until soft. 
  • Add the garlic and chili flakes, then continue cooking for another 2 minutes. 
  • Add the tomatoes, parsley and bay leaves.
  • Season with salt and pepper, to taste. Transfer to the slow cooker also.
  • Brown the beef and Italian sausage together until browned and well crumbled. DRAIN well of excess fat and add to slow cooker.
  • Add the tomatoes and chicken broth.
  • Cook on low 8-10 hours until the pork is falling apart and the gravy is thick and aromatic.
  • Taste the sauce and adjust the seasonings as needed.
  • Serve with your favorite prepared pasta.
  • Finish with fresh basil or parsley and FRESH grated Parmesan cheese.

NOTES:

  • Canned Tomatoes: You can use whole peeled tomatoes or crushed tomatoes in this recipe. If using whole peeled tomatoes you will need to crush them yourself. Some Italians prefer using tomato puree which produces an extra smooth sauce. It’s really about personal preference. Italians are passionate about which brand of tomatoes they use. San Marzano tomatoes are often said to be the best tomatoes and are what I use if not using fresh. If using whole peeled tomatoes, use an immersion blender to puree the tomatoes to make them smoother before adding them.
  • Herbs and Spices: Keep the spices minimal. I ONLY use FRESH Italian parsley and basil as well as ground bay leaves. It gives the spaghetti sauce a subtle, but distinct flavor. I also use red pepper flakes, but se these to taste as not everyone likes a spicy sauce.
  • Sugar: This ingredient is very controversial, but you can add a pinch of sugar to your sauce to balance the acidity. I usually do this towards the end of the simmering time after tasting and adjust the seasoning with salt and red pepper. Many times the tomatoes are so sweet I don’t need to add sugar, other times though it takes several tablespoons to balance out the acidity.
  • Meats: A good Sunday gravy typically includes a variety of meats. I usually include Italian sausage, chili grind size lean ground beef and large pieces of trimmed pork butt. These meats add a depth of flavor and richness that make it the gravy versus a plain marinara sauce.
  • Tomato paste is optional, but it adds nice body to the sauce. If you like your gravy a little bit thicker, don’t skip it! You can also thin out the sauce with more broth as needed.
  • It’s important to stir the pot about every 20 minutes or so to prevent the bottom from burning.
    Turn off the heat and allow the meats to sit in the sauce until ready to eat. I like to make my sauce on Sunday morning, then let it hang out on the stove all day. 
  • This recipe is very forgiving – you can adjust the amount or type of meat to suit your preference and the number of people you’re serving.