HAPPY HOMEMAKER & MENU PLAN MONDAY

Last week got REALLY warm!!!! So, to beat the heat I stayed inside and thought about snow.  Yep, I’m thinking about winter and Christmas already.  I actually started my Christmas cards and am about 75% DONE.  It’s been a while since I made my own and I forgot how hard it is to cut out all the little pieces – boy, are my hands tired!

Be sure to link up with Sandra at Diary of a Stay at Home Mom for Happy homemaker Monday and with Laura at I’m an Organizing Junkie for Menu Plan Monday. 

WEATHER OUTSIDE
It is STILL HOT! And super muggymight as well be in Texas or Florida!  We are setting new records all the time.

TO DO FOR THE WEEK

  • Finish Christmas cards
  • Paperwork
  • Appt.s
  • Phone Calls

CURRENTLY READING

TELEVISION / DVR

  • Astronaut Wives Club 
  • Complications
  • Proof
  • Dark Matter
  • The Last Ship
  • Under the Dome
  • Rookie Blue
BREAKFAST
DINNER
DESSERT
MONDAY
Cereal & Fruit
Y.O.Y.O. / C.O.R.N.
TUESDAY
Bagel & cream cheese
EXPERIMENT NIGHT
WEDNESDAY
Yogurt with Blueberries & Granola
THURSDAY
Scrambled Eggs with cheese & Toast
Chicken Broccoli Casserole & Salad
FRIDAY
Yogurt with Blueberries & Granola
Sweet & Sticky Pork Chops w/ Dirty Rice
SATURDAY
Steaks and baked potatoes with a side of fireworks
SUNDAY
Fruit Smoothies

SUCCESSFUL RECIPE LINKS  FROM LAST WEEK

FUTURE RECIPES TO TRY
My favorite neighbor ever surprised me yesterday with armfuls of cookbooks she wanted to get rid of.  I’m so in love with new recipes that I’m not sure where to start.  My nephew is coming for a week soon so I decided to start with kid friendly recipes – he’s young, but he’s a HUGE growing boy so I also needed easy, flavorful and stretching recipes.  Here are the ones I have found so far:

  • TexMex Tamale Skillet
  • Hamburger Strogaanoff
  • Ground Beef Reuben Melts
  • Pizza Calzone
  • Chili Rice con Queso
  • Fiesta Chicken Lasagna
  • Italian Lemon Semifreddo 

HEALTH & BEAUTY TIPS
With summer comes rough, flaky and dry skin.  Here’s a homemade exfoliating body wash that will make your skin silky smooth.

PINEAPPLE BODY WASH – makes 2 week’s worth.  I saved an old Herbal Essence bottle to keep this recipe in.

1 6-ounce can pineapple juice
2 cups castile liquid soap (Dr. Bronner’s or Kirk’s original at Walmart)

  • Blend together.
  • Shake to mix before using each day.
  • Pour a small amount on wash cloth, lather and wash.

“You will find that it is necessary to let things go; simply for the reason that they are heavy. So let them go, let go of them. I tie no weights to my ankles.” ― C. JoyBell C.

THINGS THAT MAKE ME HAPPY

  • Air conditioning in triple digit temperatures
  • Fresh Flowers 
  • Laughing children playing outside

FAVORITE PHOTOS FROM THE CAMERA THIS WEEK
We’ve been watching these ‘environmental’ platforms for quite some time now.  There are 3 of them in this particular area and all have residents.   The fledglings have been taking test flights and appear to be close to ready to leave home.

The platforms don’t look huge until you take a picture from below and then you realize their actual size.

INSPIRATION

HAPPY HOMEMAKER & MENU PLAN MONDAY

Last week was not a real busy week, but it sure went by quickly. Haven’t had much energy to do anything special. We did head to the coast for a father’s day dinner and ran across a chainsaw competition/exhibition and I found a few favorites to get pictures of.

Be sure to link up with Sandra at Diary of a Stay at Home Mom for Happy homemaker Monday and with Laura at I’m an Organizing Junkie for Menu Plan Monday.  

WEATHER OUTSIDE
Things are heating up here again this week to triple digits by the end of the week, so I am planning indoor projects.  We went to the local farm stand Friday and found some great finds so I made a fantastic fruit salad for dinner over the weekend and plan on making another one this weekend.

TO DO FOR THE WEEK

  • a few phone calls
  • a little filing
  • cleaning and laundry
  • Starting my Christmas cards (yep, you read that right) I’m going to actually make my own this year and NOT wait until last minute

CURRENTLY READING

  • What a Girl Wants by Kate Perry
  • Resurrection in Mudbug  by Jana DeLeon
  • Dead Wrong by Leighann Dobbs

TELEVISION / DVR

  • Astronaut Wives Club 
  • Complications
  • Proof
  • Dark Matter
  • The Last Ship

BREAKFAST
DINNER
DESSERT
MONDAY
Cereal & Fruit
Y.O.Y.O. / C.O.R.N.
TUESDAY
Bagel & cream cheese
EXPERIMENT NIGHT
WEDNESDAY
Yogurt with Blueberries & Granola
Chardonnay Chicken
THURSDAY
Scrambled Eggs with cheese & Toast
Lemon Parsley Chicken
FRIDAY
Yogurt with Blueberries & Granola
Sweet & Sticky Pork Chops w/ Dirty Rice
SATURDAY
Biscuits & Gravy
Salted Caramel Chocolate Cheesecake
SUNDAY
Ham & Cheese Omelets
Mahogany Chicken & Broccoli

SUCCESSFUL RECIPES  FROM LAST WEEK

RECIPE FINDS TO TRY LATER
A couple weekends ago we went down to the Local Relay for Life garage sale and it was a real bust, but I was in the mood for bargain so went a little further to a favorite antique mall and found a great garage sale along the way.  I ran across a real bargain on some recipe magazines and bought the whole lot.  Here are some of the recipes we’ll be trying:

  • French onion BACON soup
  • Fruit Jellies
  • Beet, Cheddar & Apple tarts
  • Spooky Rum Coolers
  • Caramel Popcorn Pretzel Bars
  • Slow Cooker Green Chili
  • Roasted Beef, mushroom & Barley Soup
  • Apple Sour Cream Coffee Cake
  • Slow Cooker Bacon Jam
  • Chicken with Cornmeal Dumplings
  • Pepperoni Pasta Bake
  • Jamaican Spiced Upside Down Cake
  • Buttered Toast and Jam Pudding
  • Coconut Buttermilk pound cake
  • Blackberry Oat Bran Muffins
  • Backyard Jerk Chicken
  • Apricot Bourbon Glazed Ham
  • Bacon Pancakes
  • Strawberry Rhubarb Slab Pie
  • Lemon Herb Dressing
  • Cappuccino Chocolate Cupcakes
  • Chicken in Garlic Oil
  • Slow Cooker Brisket & Onions
  • Salmon with brown sugar mustard glaze
  • Rocky road fudge bars
  • Turnip Au Gratin
  • Sausage Cheddar Balls
  • Orange Cumin Pork Loin
  • Baked Bacon Tortellini
  • Sweet and sour sesame wings
  • Frozen honey cream
  • Blueberry Cream Cheese hand pies
  • Lemon Pudding
  • Peanut Butter stuffed French Toast
  • Sticky Orange Chicken
  • Chicken Gazpacho
  • Spiced Parsnip Cupcakes
  • Apple Raisin Cookies

HEALTH & BEAUTY TIPS
I’ve recently begun using doTerra essential oils and have been having great success with one combination in particular for easier breathing by clearing your sinuses.

Peppermint oil
Breathe
DigestZen

  • Put one drop of each oil on the palm of your hand.
  • Rub hands together.
  • Form a tent with your hands and breathe deep 2-3 times.

HOMEMAKING/COOKING TIP
Tips for better batters:

  • ALL your ingredients should be at room temperature (eggs, butter, milks, …
  • When you cream butter and sugar, DO IT SLOWLY.  This step in your recipe is meant to aerate your batter creating a lighter and fluffier cake.
  • Choose your ingredients carefully. For example, using cake flour instead of all purpose flour creates a softer, finer crumb to your cake.
  • Use the proper tools for measuring For example, measure wet ingredients in liquid measures and dry ingredients in dry measures. Don’t pack ingredients unless told to do so. Flour in particular should be lightly spooned in and leveled off with a knife.
  • Alternating wet and dry ingredients creates a smoother batter and prevents toughness. 
  • Cake batter cannot be made in advance, but cakes can as long as you don’t frost them, they will freeze well. for 3-4 weeks.  Be sure and let them cool completely before freezing. Conversely allow them to thaw completely before icing.

MAKE AHEAD SMOOTHIES – Perfect for busy weeks

  • Instead of making one serving of your favorite smoothie whip up a whole batch all at once.
  • Place one serving each in freezer bags.
  • Lay them flat and stack in the freezer.
  • Transfer one to the refrigerator the night before and they are perfect the next morning for a meal on the run.

    My favorite flavor combination is:
    Bolt House Farms Green Goddess
    Pomegranate juice
    a banana
    a handful of wild blueberries

    • The secret of life isn’t what happens to you, but what you do with what happens to you.  
    • Help other people cope with their problems and your own will be easier to cope with.
    • Never use the word “impossible” seriously again.
    • Self-trust is the first secret of success.  So believe in and trust yourself.
    • Stand up to obstacles and do something about them. You will find that they haven’t half the strength you think they have.
    • Joy increases as you give it, and diminishes as you try to keep it for yourself.  In giving it, you will accumulate a deposit of joy greater than you ever believed possible.
    • How you think about a problem is more important than the problem itself, so always think positively.
    • Go at life with abandon, give it all you’ve got. And life will give all it has to you.
    ~Norman Vincent Peale “Positive Thinking Every Day”


    THINGS THAT MAKE ME HAPPY

    • A lazy summer afternoon napping on the patio
    • Marathon afternoons catching up with favorite shows
    • Freshly painted walls
    • A day at the beach

    FAVORITE PHOTO FROM THE CAMERA

    Awesome moon on June 3rd.

    INSPIRATION

    HAPPY HOMEMAKER & MENU PLAN MONDAY

    I can’t believe it is Monday already. Last week just whizzed by and I’m not done with everything I started!  

    Be sure to link up with Sandra at Diary of a Stay at Home Mom for Happy homemaker Monday and with Laura at I’m an Organizing Junkie for Menu Plan Monday.   

    WEATHER OUTSIDE
    So much better this week.  There has been a wonderful breeze and temperatures are down around 80 at the heat of the day and around 50 at night.

    TO DO FOR THE WEEK

    • Eye Doctor appointment
    • a few letters
    • several phone calls
    • filing
    • Oncology check up – 4 1/2 years – almost there!

    CURRENTLY READING
    I’m still reading Jana DeLeon.  I finished her Miss Fortune series and am awaiting the newest book in that series, but have begAn her Ghost-In-Law Series for a fun summer read and am on book 3.

    TELEVISION / DVR

    • When Calls the Heart season finale
    • Dark Matter (new)
    • Beauty and the Beast
    • Astronauts Wives Club (new)
    • Royal Pains
    • Melissa & Joey
    • Devious Maids
    • The Whispers (new)
    • Proof (new)
    • Rizzoli & Isles
    • Major Crimes
    • Wayward Pines – just not sure about this one yet

    MENU PLANS FOR THE WEEK

    BREAKFAST
    DINNER
    DESSERT
    MONDAY
    Cereal & Fruit
    CHARDONNAY CHICKEN
    TUESDAY
    Bagel & cream cheese
    EXPERIMENT NIGHT
    WEDNESDAY
    Yogurt with Blueberries & Granola
    HERB ROASTED CHICKEN & VEGGIES
    THURSDAY
    Scrambled Eggs with cheese & Toast
    Y.O.Y.O. / C.O.R.N.
    FRIDAY
    Yogurt with Blueberries & Granola
    TOMATO PORK CHILI
    SATURDAY
    BRUSCHETTA CHICKEN BAKE
    CHOCOLATE CHEESECAKE
    SUNDAY
    MAHOGANY CHICKEN & BROCCOLI

    SUCCESSFUL RECIPE LINKS FROM LAST WEEK

    RECIPE FINDS TO TRY LATER

    • Salted Caramel Chocolate Cheesecake Cake
    • Black Forest Dump Cake
    • Mocha Madness Dump Cake
    • Apple Caramel Pecan Dump Cake
    • Chicken Caesar Burgers
    • Sicilian Burgers

    HOMEMAKING/COOKING TIP
    When frying food add 2 teaspoons of natural cocoa powder (non-dutched anti-oxidant form).  You WON’T taste it, but it blocks the absorption of fats and carbohydrates.

    GIVE LAVISHLY! GIVE ABUNDANTLY!
    The more you give, the more you get –
    The more you laugh, the less you fret –
    The more you do unselfishly,
    The more you live abundantly…
    The more of everything you share, 
    The more you’ll always have to spare –
    The more you love, the more you’ll find
    That life is good and friends are kind…
    For only what we give away
    Enriches us from day to day.
    ~Source Unknown

    THINGS THAT MAKE ME HAPPY

    • Clean counter tops
    • Clean baseboards
    • Cool breezes
    • Smiles and hugs from my favorite neighbor kids

    FAVORITE PHOTO FROM THE CAMERA

    INSPIRATION

    HAPPY HOMEMAKER & MENU PLAN MONDAY

    I can’t believe it is Monday already. Last week just whizzed by! Be sure to link up with Sandra at Diary of a Stay at Home Mom for Happy homemaker Monday and with Laura at I’m an Organizing Junkie for Menu Plan Monday. 

    WEATHER OUTSIDE
    MAJORLY HOT ESPECIALLY FOR THIS AREA and time of year! Today is supposed to be 97. We only hit 93 yesterday, but it wasn’t too bad in the afternoon in the shade with the heavenly breeze that made its way in.

    TO DO FOR THE WEEK

    • Hair appointment
    • Pedicure
    • Cleaning
    • a few small projects
    • a couple recipe development projects

    CURRENTLY READING
    I’m still reading Jana DeLeon.  I finished her Miss Fortune series and am awaiting the newest book in that series, but have begun her Ghost-In-Law Series for a fun summer read.

    TELEVISION / DVR
    A few new shows have started, but I’m still not sure about a couple of those.  I’m still trying to finish up a few from the spring that are on the DVR.

    • America’s Got Talent
    • DIG
    • The Americans

    CRAFTS & PROJECTS
    no actual crafts his week

    MENU PLANS FOR THE WEEK

    BREAKFAST
    DINNER
    DESSERT
    MONDAY
    Cereal & Fruit
    Y.O.Y.O. / C.O.R.N.
    TUESDAY
    Bagel & cream cheese
    EXPERIMENT NIGHT
    WEDNESDAY
    Yogurt with Blueberries & Granola
    Chicken Wings South of the Border
    THURSDAY
    Scrambled Eggs with cheese & Toast
    Bun Less Burgers Beer Baked White Beans & Salad
    FRIDAY
    Yogurt with Blueberries & Granola
    BBQ Pork Ribs & Potato Salad
    SATURDAY
    Quiche Lorraine
    Peach Crumble Pie & Homemade PayDay Bars
    SUNDAY
    OUT
    Paprika Fried Chicken

    SUCCESSFUL RECIPES  FROM LAST WEEK

    RECIPE FINDS TO TRY LATER
    My mom found these cute little books for camping recipes to make in pie irons.  Now, I’m NOT going to go camping to try them, but am going to try and convert them into everyday oven recipes.

    • Individual chicken casseroles
    • Muffin Tin Meals
    • Buffalo Chicken Hand Pies
    • Sloppy Joe Pockets
    • Pepperoni Snails
    • S’mores Hand Pies
    • Potato Pancakes
    • Dream Pies
    • Chicken Pot Pies
    • Caramel Banana Jumbles
    • Extreme Brownies
    • Onion Puffs
    • Peanut Butter Waffles
    • Sweet & Spicy Crescent Clubs

    HEALTH & BEAUTY TIPS
    The old adage, “you are what you eat” has never been truer than in life today. I try to do anti-oxidant fruits and veggies everyday in form or another.  If you are on a tight schedule, you can make smoothies in large batches and then freeze in ziploc freezer bags.  Just place a frozen one in the frig the night before and it will a perfect on the go breakfast the next day.

    My favorite recipe is Bolthouse Farms Green Goodness, pomegranate juice, banana and wild blueberries.

    HOMEMAKING TIP
    On sticky or squeaky drawers use a bar or soap or an old candle on the tracks to create a smooth edge for the drawer to slide along.

    A life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing. 

    THINGS THAT MAKE ME HAPPY

    • Reading a good book that engages my imagination
    • When my favorite team wins
    • Starry nights

    FAVORITE PHOTO FROM THE CAMERA

    These two really are inseparable (pun intended)
    INSPIRATION

    HAPPY HOMEMAKER & MENU PLAN MONDAY

    I can’t believe it is Monday already. It was not a real busy week, but it sure went by quickly. Be sure to link up with Sandra at Diary of a Stay at Home Mom for Happy homemaker Monday and with Laura at I’m an Organizing Junkie for Menu Plan Monday.

    WEATHER OUTSIDE
    Absolutely beautiful and supposed to stay that way this week.

    TO DO FOR THE WEEK

    • Laundry
    • Cleaning
    • Paperwork

    CURRENTLY READING

    TELEVISION / DVR
    It’s that time of year before much new begins so playing catch up on the DVR.

    CRAFTS & PROJECTS
    Nothing new yet.

    BREAKFAST
    DINNER
    DESSERT
    MONDAY
    Cereal & Fruit
    Y.O.Y.O. / C.O.R.N.
    TUESDAY
    Bagel & cream cheese
    EXPERIMENT NIGHT
    WEDNESDAY
    Yogurt with Blueberries & Granola
    THURSDAY
    Scrambled Eggs with cheese & Toast
    FRIDAY
    Yogurt with Blueberries & Granola
    CHOCOLATE MONKEY BREAD
    SATURDAY
    SPAM & EGGS
    SUNDAY

     RECIPES IN YELLOW ARE ACTIVE LINKS

    SUCCESSFUL RECIPES  FROM LAST WEEK

    RECIPE FINDS TO TRY LATER

    • Apple Slaw with caramelized Cider Dressing
    • Spiderweb Florentines
    • Pumpkin Gingerbread ice cream sandwiches

    HEALTH & BEAUTY TIPS
    Summer is almost here and we’ll be wearing flip flops and going barefoot more and more.  So here is a little recipe for a foot soak that removes the dead skin from your feet.
    1/4 cup Listerine
    1/4 cup vinegar
    1/2 cup warm water

    • Soak feet 10 minutes.
    • Rinse and dry.  Dead skin will just fall off.

    HOMEMAKING TIP
    Have strong odors on your hands from onions, garlic or fish?

    • Wet your hands.
    • Sprinkle on baking soda.
    • Rub together until hands are coated in the paste.  
    • Rinse well and odors will be gone.

    ON MY MIND
    Just trying to understand why someone does not return phone calls, repeatedly.  I’ve called several times over the past few months, but they go unanswered and un-returned.  Obviously they are miffed about some unknown, but about what, who knows?  I wish things were different because I do miss our chats, but I can’t fix what I don’t know is broken.  Since I don’t know what I did, I figure they’ll call eventually.

    THINGS THAT MAKE ME HAPPY

    • Sunny Skies
    • Hubby getting the sling off this week 
    • A clean house
     Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its troubles, it empties today of its strength. ~Corrie Ten Boom

    FAVORITE PHOTO FROM THE CAMERA

    LEO the clown at the CULPEPPER and MERRIWEATHER CIRCUS

    INSPIRATION

    HAPPY HOMEMAKER & MENU PLAN MONDAY

    I can’t believe how quickly Monday seems to come with each new week. This past week seemed to fly by and I didn’t get everything on my to do list finished. Maybe this week will be more productive. I’m adding a new category this week – Quotable Quotes.  Be sure to link up with Sandra at Diary of a Stay at Home Mom for Happy homemaker Monday and with Laura at I’m an Organizing Junkie for Menu Plan Monday.

    WEATHER OUTSIDE
    Decent temperatures, unstable air, but dreary and rainy one minute and then sunny and gorgeous the next.

    TO DO FOR THE WEEK

    • Appointments
    • Shopping
    • Paperwork
    • Sorting and Cleaning

    CURRENTLY READING

    • Miss Fortune Mysteries by Jana DeLeon

    TELEVISION / DVR

    • Bones 
    • When Calls the Heart
    • the Hallmark movies I taped

    CRAFTS & PROJECTS
    Nothing new this week

    MENU PLANS FOR THE WEEK


    BREAKFAST
    DINNER
    DESSERT
    MONDAY
    Cereal & Fruit
    Y.O.Y.O. / C.O.R.N.

    TUESDAY
    Bran Muffin & Fruit
    EXPERIMENT

    WEDNESDAY
    Yogurt with Blueberries & Granola
    Slow Cook Moo Shu Chicken and Vegetables

    THURSDAY
    Scrambled Eggs with cheese & Toast
    South of the Border Chicken Wings and Salad

    FRIDAY
    Yogurt with Blueberries & Granola
    Herb Meat Loaf & Gravy with Broccoli

    SATURDAY
    Halibut & Cabbage Gratin

    SUNDAY
    Salmon in a Blanket
    Pickle Fried Chicken with Cauliflower Mashed Potatoes

    RECIPES in YELLOW = LINKS

    SUCCESSFUL RECIPES  FROM LAST WEEK

    RECIPE FINDS TO TRY LATER

    • Ultimate Stuffed Artichokes
    • Avocado Egg Rolls
    • Cauliflower Breadsticks
    • Peach Chili Lime Hot Wings

    HEALTH & BEAUTY TIPS

    • Mix a small amount of baking soda and hydrogen peroxide together until you have a paste.  
    • With a toothbrush scrub the paste into your nails.  
    • Add the remaining paste to enough warm water to cover your fingers and/or toes and let them sit 5-10 minutes.  
    • Rinse off and you have sparkling white nails.

    HOMEMAKING TIP
    Strong steeped tea makes a great permanent scratch cover for wood furniture.

    ON MY MIND
    Why is it that you no longer hear ” (insert name here) please pick up your children in the security office?  Not once, but twice while grocery shopping yesterday the same 3 young children (and I mean to young to not be with their parents – like 5 or 6) came racing around corners with racing empty carts bumping into people and almost knocking over an old lady.  When I was a kid these kids wold have been scooped up by a store employee and delivered to management to be picked up by their parents. 

    THINGS THAT MAKE ME HAPPY

    • Quiet time
    • Soft Chewy Cookies
    • Blue Skies with Fluffy white clouds

    FAVORITE PHOTO FROM THE CAMERA
    Spring in FULL bloom

    Life can only be understood backwards, 
    but it must be lived forward. 
    ~Soren Kierkwgaard

    INSPIRATION

    THE LAW OF THE GARBAGE TRUCK

    This is an email that came across my desk again today and I know I’ve shared it before, 
    but I thought the analogy was so well spelled out that I’d like to pass it on again.

    One day I hopped into a taxi and we took off for the airport. We were driving in the right lane when suddenly a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his breaks, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches! The driver of the other car whipped his head around and started yelling at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. I mean he was really friendly. So I asked, “Why did you just do that? That guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!”
    This is when my taxi driver taught me what I call, “The Law of the Garbage Truck.” He explained that many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment. As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it and sometimes they’ll dump it on you.
    Don’t take it personally. Just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on. Don’t take their garbage and spread it to other people at work, at home, or on the streets.
    The bottom line is that successful people do not let garbage trucks take over their day. Life’s too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so….. “Love the people who treat you right. Pray for the ones who don’t.”

    THE TABLECLOTH – BLOGMAS 2014 – DAY 21

    This story originally came across my email and I was reminded that it is a beautiful way to celebrate Christmas Holiday spirit so I thought I’d share. This is such a beautiful story that makes you understand that things truly do happen for a reason. Don’t forget to grab the tissue box.

    The brand new pastor and his wife, newly assigned to their first ministry, to reopen a church in suburban Brooklyn, arrived in early October excited about their opportunities. When they saw their church, it was very run down and needed much work. They set a goal to have everything done in time to have their first service on Christmas Eve.

    They worked hard, repairing pews, plastering walls, painting, etc… and on December 18th they were ahead of schedule and just about finished.

    On December 19th a terrible tempest – a driving rainstorm hit the area and lasted for two days.

    On the 21st, the pastor went over to the church. His heart sank when he saw that the roof had leaked, causing a large area of plaster about 20 feet by 8 feet to fall off the front wall of the sanctuary just behind the pulpit, beginning about head high.

    The pastor cleaned up the mess on the floor, and not knowing what else to do but postpone the Christmas Eve service, headed home. On the way he noticed that a local business was having a flea market type sale for charity so he stopped in. One of the items was a beautiful, handmade, ivory colored, crocheted tablecloth with exquisite work, fine colors and a Cross embroidered right in the center. It was just the right size to cover up the hole in the front wall. He bought it and headed back to the church.

    By this time it had started to snow. An older woman running from the opposite direction was trying to catch the bus. She missed it. The pastor invited her to wait in the warm church for the next bus 45 minutes later. She sat in a pew and paid no attention to the pastor while he got a ladder, hangers, etc… to put up the tablecloth as a wall tapestry. The pastor could hardly believe how beautiful it looked and it covered up the entire problem area.

    Then he noticed the woman walking down the center aisle. Her face was like a sheet.. ‘Pastor,’ she asked, ‘where did you get that tablecloth?’ The pastor explained. The woman asked him to check the lower right corner to see if the initials, EBG were crocheted into it there. They were. These were the initials of the woman, and she had made this tablecloth 35 years before, in Austria.

    The woman could hardly believe it as the pastor told how he had just gotten the Tablecloth. The woman explained that before the war she and her husband were well-to-do people in Austria. When the Nazis came, she was forced to leave. Her husband was going to follow her the next week. He was captured, sent to prison and she never saw her husband or her home again.

    The pastor wanted to give her the tablecloth, but she made the pastor keep it for the church. The pastor insisted on driving her home, that was the least he could do. She lived on the other side of Staten Island and was only in Brooklyn for the day for a house cleaning job.

    What a wonderful service they had on Christmas Eve The church was almost full. The music and the spirit were great. At the end of the service, the pastor and his wife greeted everyone at the door and many said that they would return. One older man, whom the pastor recognized from the neighborhood continued to sit in one of the pews and stare, and the pastor wondered why he wasn’t leaving.

    The man asked him where he got the Tablecloth on the front wall because it was identical to one that his wife had made years ago when they lived in Austria before the war and how could there be two tablecloths so much alike.

    He told the pastor how the Nazis came, how he forced his wife to flee for her safety and he was supposed to follow her, but he was arrested and put in a prison. He never saw his wife or his home again all the 35 years in between.

    The pastor asked him if he would allow him to take him for a little ride. They drove to Staten Island and to the same house where the pastor had taken the woman three days earlier.

    He helped the man climb the three flights of stairs to the woman’s apartment, knocked on the door and he saw the greatest Christmas reunion he could ever imagine.

    This true Story was submitted by Pastor Rob Reid.

    More entries over at Diary of a Stay at Home Mom’s BLOGMAS.

    SOMEONE SPECIAL SHARED THIS WITH ME, AND I WANT TO SHARE IT WITH YOU

    On the first day of school our professor introduced himself and challenged us to get to know someone we didn’t already know.

    I stood up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder. 

I turned around to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with a smile that lit up her entire being.

 She said, ‘Hi handsome. My name is Rose. I’m eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?’ 

I laughed and enthusiastically responded, ‘Of course you may!’ and she gave me a giant squeeze.



    ‘Why are you in college at such a young, innocent age?’ I asked. 



    She jokingly replied, ‘I’m here to meet a rich husband, get married, and have a couple of kids….’ 



    ‘No seriously,’ I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge at her age. 



    ‘I always dreamed of having a college education and now I’m getting one!’ she told me. 



    After class we walked to the student union building and shared a chocolate milkshake. 

We became instant friends. Every day for the next three months we would leave class together and talk nonstop. I was always mesmerized listening to this ‘time machine’ as she shared her wisdom and experience with me. 



    Over the course of the year, Rose became a campus icon and she easily made friends wherever she went. She loved to dress up and she revelled in the attention bestowed upon her from the other students. She was living it up. 



    At the end of the semester we invited Rose to speak at our football banquet. I’ll never forget what she taught us. She was introduced and stepped up to the podium. As she began to deliver her prepared speech, she dropped her three by five cards on the floor. 


     Frustrated and a little embarrassed she leaned into the microphone and simply said, ‘I’m sorry I’m so jittery. I gave up beer for Lent and this whiskey is killing me! I’ll never get my speech back in order so let me just tell you what I know.’ 



    As we laughed she cleared her throat and began, ‘We do not stop playing because we are old; we grow old because we stop playing. 

There are only four secrets to staying young, being happy, and achieving success. You have to laugh and find humour every day. You’ve got to have a dream. When you lose your dreams, you die. 

We have so many people walking around who are dead and don’t even know it! 



    There is a huge difference between growing older and growing up. 

If you are nineteen years old and lie in bed for one full year and don’t do one productive thing, you will turn twenty years old. If I am eighty-seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn eighty-eight. 

Anybody! Can grow older. That doesn’t take any talent or ability.

    The idea is to grow up by always finding opportunity in change. Have no regrets. 

The elderly usually don’t have regrets for what we did, but rather for things we did not do. The only people who fear death are those with regrets.’ 



    She concluded her speech by courageously singing ‘The Rose.’ 

She challenged each of us to study the lyrics and live them out in our daily lives.

    At the year’s end Rose finished the college degree she had begun all those months ago. 

One week after graduation Rose died peacefully in her sleep. 

Over two thousand college students attended her funeral in tribute to the wonderful woman who taught by example that it’s never too late to be all you can possibly be.

    

When you finish reading this, please send this peaceful word of advice to your friends and family, they’ll really enjoy it! 

These words have been passed along in loving memory of ROSE. 



    REMEMBER, GROWING OLDER IS MANDATORY. 
    GROWING UP IS OPTIONAL. 

    We make a Living by what we get. We make a Life by what we give. 

God promises a safe landing, not a calm passage. If God brings you to it, He will bring you through it. 



    “The Rose”
    Some say love, it is a river
    That drowns the tender reed.
    Some say love, it is a razor
    That leaves your soul to bleed.
    Some say love, it is a hunger,
    An endless aching need.
    I say love, it is a flower,
    And you its only seed.

    It’s the heart afraid of breaking
    That never learns to dance.
    It’s the dream afraid of waking
    That never takes the chance.
    It’s the one who won’t be taken,
    Who cannot seem to give,
    And the soul afraid of dyin’
    That never learns to live.

    When the night has been too lonely
    And the road has been too long,
    And you think that love is only
    For the lucky and the strong,
    Just remember in the winter
    Far beneath the bitter snows
    Lies the seed that with the sun’s love
    In the spring becomes the rose.